"There comes a time when relationship gets stable, when you start thinking about moving in with the guy. And that is the moment when a magical thing happens - somehow you do not want him to be attractive to other girls, but it would be fun for you to have him looking good. Let's name this situation a lock paradox. When you put a big lock on a big door, everyone can see it. However, you are the only one who has the key to it. And, in fact, "big doors" does not mean you are fat, - you are beautiful the way you are.
But the lock has to look good, right? I'm sure you felt it - when relationship becomes serious, you start caring about the way your guy looks. It's natural and nothing to be ashamed about. For you. However, the guy can become insecure and take your style advice as an insult.
On the other hand, your guy may be a hunter. One of the most popular, or it just might be my own theory says: the differences between a man and a woman in a clothes shop were noticed a long time ago, when men were hunters and women were collecting berries and other things. That is why a woman is choosing every thing very carefully, like she used to collect berries and a man (who is a hunter) will take the first thing that fits him - as if he would throw the stick to the first mammoth he sees. A piece of clothing to this hunter is a treasure which he got easily. And if he sees that this particular shirt or whatever it is fits him, he will buy even more of them. One of the most popular hunter is the greatest inventor Steve Jobs. He had over hundreds of turtle neck sweaters in his closet created by Issey Miyake. During the interview in 2011 he even admitted that he has so many sweaters like this, he does not have to worry about it anymore. And he was right. He did not have to worry about it for the rest of his life.
When you will buy clothes for your hunter, he won't have to hunt anymore. In the mornings he will be able to fish, in the afternoons he will take animals for a walk and in the evenings he will complain about things. However, he will be happy to see that you are putting his clothes in the closet, taking care of it.
It is common to spread rumors that men adore women in their (men) clothes. We saw that in multiple romantic comedies, music videos and we have even read about it in magazines. Yes, it looks sexy and romantic when you are one day or a month in the relationship, but when you live together it could get quite annoying.
Just imagine: he wants to go to work and you are in his shirt. What is he supposed to do? You will let him to take the shirt off of you? And what is next? Of course, once you let him do that he will want more. And when you are fully undressed, you won't just stand there like this, right? It will be the start of something that is called horizontal gymnastics. And in the end, the guy will be running late because of it.
Is that what you really want? Do you want to have sex with him every morning? Well, now that I've written it, I thought that it's not so bad. Quite the opposite - it's wonderful. You know what? I changed my mind. Enough of this psychological nonsense. A woman who is wearing her man's clothes is the sexiest thing to him.
However, there are some rules. Not every piece of mens clothing fits a woman, Every top like flannel shirts, T-Shirts and hoodies are perfect but I would not recommned to try men's pants and especially not his underwear because you would look really weird in it. In addition to that, it would not be comfortable for you, especially with his underwear because there is this additional space, usually with a button, which is used when you are in a hurry and you want to take your sword out. Also, I do not recommend for a guy to try out your clothes. In the best case scenario, he will rip something up. In the worst case scenario, he will like it and you will have to start looking for someone else."
- Paulius Ambrazevičius (2016)
Now I want to say that this article is written by a man and the original language is my native one. Lithuanian. But I really liked it so I wanted to share it with you. So I made an effort (yes, it took me half a year to come up with a new post and it's not even my article) and translated it into english. Also, I wanted to give a big shout out to my mom because she was the one who forced me and motivated me to post it. Thank you, mom!
Hope you like it and see you when I see you ;)
- Caroline
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